Marriage

Marriage is the day where a woman and a man are united by their parents, meaning they are no longer two different individuals, but one.
There are two different types of marriages, one is proposed, and the other is love. Whether our marriages is proposed or love all depends on our parents, as well as us.
In those days, parents mostly proposed their daughters, but now sometimes girls are given a choice. I suppose it all depends if we fall in love with the right person or not. But most of us youngsters know that there is no place for the word ‘LOVE’ in our families, but it is all for our own good.
Looking around, it is very clear that the most successful marriages are the ones performed with parent’s blessings. Those who marry without parent’s acceptance are never satisfied enough in life, they search for many other unnecessary things. However, I’m not saying that marriage life would be perfect if done with parent’s blessings. There will be problems, but that’s all in our hands to sort them out. To fall in love can sometimes be very dangerous, especially if we are adamant to marry that person we think is the best for us. We will make a mistake, which we will never be able to change.
A marriage only happens once in life, so it will be more advisable to do it with parent’s acceptance, and so this marriage will be a happy unforgettable memory.

Comments

Doesn't it look like a

Doesn't it look like a simplistic look at a complex issue? The success of a marriage does not depend on how it originated: proposed or arranged. It largely depends on the trust the partners develop after the union. Then, needless to say, someone we already knew of or familiar with will be the best partners for a successful married life. There is no scientific or survey-based data to support the statement that the parent-mediated marriages will be the solid ones. Well, if the blogger is talking about childhood marriages in rural parts of certain South Asian countries, then she is right!